They don't know that in time they will suffer the consequences of killing cows.
Last time I was in US and we were joking about our stray cows and dogs problems.. They told me jokingly that let us be there for 2 months in every city your problem will be solved
as we transit though a very fast changing society where not only values, ethics but our cultural existence is questioned.
That attitude is something I have a problem with. Its an escapist attitude. Why not stand up and help the other person out. He obviously has a problem and he's not able to help himself. All we wanna do is run away....just hope u grow fast and get the hell out of there.
whatever kind of help is required may be attitude adjustment, may be the guy needs to learn the hard way. But we dont understand the other point and blame the guy as an alcoholic and leave him on his own.point i am trying to make is its not the drink...its the attitude. its how u handle ure drink. to each one his own...in moderation is ok.
Hehe, Anuj, you don't really understand what she's saying here!That attitude is something I have a problem with. Its an escapist attitude. Why not stand up and help the other person out. He obviously has a problem and he's not able to help himself. All we wanna do is run away.
smokin joe...... i am all for helping out. i am definitely not the person to bail out when the going gets tough, but you can only think these things when ure of a decent age..not when ure a kid. i can just remember the bashing ...the shouting jab se hosh sambhala hai. and in case no one knows how it is...let me tell u when u get bashed up like hell as a kid...by the time u hit ure teens ure self esteem, confidence everything goes out for a toss. forget about helping that person by the time i was 12....i just had one agenda how to keep my sanity...and to just hope it gets over soon. u have no idea ...can u imagine a 12 year old child's fav book at that time was' tough times never last tough people do'. ...and not enid blytons or whatever. its about surviving. makes u grow up fast.
as for helping that person etc..etc well as anupji rightly pointed out its only when ure an adult that u get to that point....of helping..but not as innocent kids. actually its not the alcoholic but the other people who need help.
Corporal punishment versus getting battered in domestic violence.....
@Anup sir its not a philosophy its a point of view. If you want to laugh it off well thats your point of view..
For heaven's sake what would you have done if your husband turned out the same.. Ran away??