No marriage due to biking hobby :(

Mangesh Bramhe

I got BlackJack3d
I still have some soft corner about that girl. (don't know why but....)
i am thinking to msg her from FB.
Please Bhai Please, re-check with yourself if its just soft-corner or attraction or infatuation or love or what!!
Aur agar love ka maamla hai, then start a new thread for that!! :grin:
 

KurtRules

Come as you are!
Message her on facebook - Don't ask her about what happened and why did her parents and her not respond. Just a simple message asking her how she's doing and also stating that its been a long time since you've chatted. When u talked, she must have told you about her hobbies. E.g. if she said she liked music, ask her whether she has heard the latest song from coldplay, and you've always facied their lead singer (Or something like that, whatever, find a question). And wait for her to reply. If she does, GOOD! If she doesn't, then try again some days later but that is about it. Don't message her again, if you donot hear from her. Basically you are not involved with her. Part of you is infatuated and the other part is an egoist, hurt, on the fact that she rejected you.

So take it easy. If you are lucky and you guys start talking, then you can also send her a link to this thread. She might be influenced by the replies here. But not just yet :)
 

Big Daddy

Super User
You should never contact a girl after you get a NO. Woman put a lot of time in their decision-making than us guys.

Generally, parents think they know what they are doing but often they are as clueless as anyone else. If girl did not stand against her parents when they said no, she never will.
 
Message her on facebook - Don't ask her about what happened and why did her parents and her not respond. Just a simple message asking her how she's doing and also stating that its been a long time since you've chatted. When u talked, she must have told you about her hobbies. E.g. if she said she liked music, ask her whether she has heard the latest song from coldplay, and you've always facied their lead singer (Or something like that, whatever, find a question). And wait for her to reply. If she does, GOOD! If she doesn't, then try again some days later but that is about it. Don't message her again, if you donot hear from her. Basically you are not involved with her. Part of you is infatuated and the other part is an egoist, hurt, on the fact that she rejected you.

So take it easy. If you are lucky and you guys start talking, then you can also send her a link to this thread. She might be influenced by the replies here. But not just yet :)
Love Guru!!! At his best :)
 

Big Daddy

Super User
Never follow this love advice because the girl will be nice to you and months later you will get her wedding invitation where you are required to bring an expensive gift to her wedding as a guest. It would be different if you had not met her parents. Now, move on and find someone else. Otherwise, you are extending your pain and you are responsible for it.

The difference in opinions between what she wants and what her parents want is evident. Her parents want her to marry in 3-4 months and she is ok about waiting for another 1 year. By the time you contact her, she would be engaged.
 
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